Yesterday I wrote of the passing of Jewish actor and comedian Jerry Stiller. Since then, I have become aware of more and more stories about him, which show the type of person he was.
Those who knew Jerry well adored him
Such sad news that my beloved friend, Jerry Stiller, has passed. He was perhaps the kindest man I ever had the honor to work beside. He made me laugh when I was a child and every day I was with him. A great actor, a great man, a lovely friend. #RIPJerryStiller I Love you.
— jason alexander (@IJasonAlexander) May 11, 2020
#JerryStiller was one of the kindest, most loving men I have ever known. I worked with him when I was 17 and he and his dear wife #AnneMeara remained fairy godparents in my life for the next 35 years. I loved this man and his big heart. I only hope he and Anne are together now. pic.twitter.com/NoriRps1kK
— Cynthia Nixon (@CynthiaNixon) May 11, 2020
The truth is that this happened all the time with Jerry Stiller. He was so funny and such a dear human being. We loved him. RIP Jerry Stiller.https://t.co/kXL14zMKeX
— Julia Louis-Dreyfus (@OfficialJLD) May 11, 2020
https://www.instagram.com/p/CADWK-hAopj/
He seemed to touch everyone he came in to contact with, with many stories coming out about his menschy behavior.
Comedian Dana Gould:
https://twitter.com/danagould/status/1259911066982559744
I kept saying to him, “Jerry, you have a beautiful, comfortable seat up there. You don’t have to stay back here with me.”
He just looked at me and said, “Who the hell am I gonna talk to up there?”
— Dana Gould (@danagould) May 11, 2020
Journalist Nick Hershon:
For one day in 2010, I was the chaffeur for Frank Costanza.
I was a reporter for the New York Daily News, and I pitched a story on the many "Seinfeld" filming locations in NYC.
I called Jerry Stiller and asked if he'd ever been to the Costanza home.
He hadn't.
So I drove him. pic.twitter.com/OMzwatc6su
— Nick Hirshon (@nickhirshon) May 11, 2020
The plan was just to park near the Costanza house and take a few photos outside to accompany my story.
But when we got there, Jerry Stiller said he wanted to ring the bell and see if anyone was home.
Luckily, videographer Julia Xanthos was there to capture what happened. pic.twitter.com/xi6XyLZ93X
— Nick Hirshon (@nickhirshon) May 11, 2020
Fun fact: The family of Bessie and Jack Lopipero, who lived in the Costanza home, stayed in touch after this story. Bessie even knitted a scarf for me! pic.twitter.com/hej3lGp32e
— Nick Hirshon (@nickhirshon) May 11, 2020
After we left the Lopipero house, I knew I’d experienced something I’d never forget. pic.twitter.com/ua5FOZT6e8
— Nick Hirshon (@nickhirshon) May 11, 2020
We took one last photo outside. Catch Bessie in the window! pic.twitter.com/X60JQYitkO
— Nick Hirshon (@nickhirshon) May 11, 2020
But our story didn’t end there. Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara sent me Festivus cards every year! pic.twitter.com/0Tho0Lzvoz
— Nick Hirshon (@nickhirshon) May 11, 2020
And when I left the Daily News, I received a phone call from an old source. Jerry Stiller said he heard I’d accepted another job, and he wanted to wish me well. What a classy man.
— Nick Hirshon (@nickhirshon) May 11, 2020
Reporter Ginger Adam Otis:
He sat with me for some 30 minutes, talking about Seinfeld & baseball & we had some more laughs. A real mensch who did mitzvahs to cheer up complete strangers. Still have the pic a nurse took. Thank you #JerryStiller pic.twitter.com/ZyiBQSnEPv
— Ginger Adams Otis (@GingerOtis) May 11, 2020
Steven Saito:
Been writing about movies for 20 years and only two people have ever sent handwritten thank you letters. Jerry Stiller was one of them – when I was in college. pic.twitter.com/1k5VD8fUsa
— Stephen Saito (@mfrushmore) May 11, 2020
Rob Forbes:
Years ago, we ran into Jerry Stiller We asked if he would take a photo. A guy with him said he doesn’t have time he has to get home and Mr Stiller said “No, I have all the time in the world for you let’s take a picture” We always remember how nice he was #ripjerrystiller pic.twitter.com/WXWlZqK16t
— Rob Forbes (@sect801) May 11, 2020
Shai Davis:
When I was about 14, I held the bus for an older gentleman I saw hustling to catch it. The M5 never showed up when you needed it.
Out of breath, his eyes go up to my kippah, and then back to me. He yells, so the whole bus can hear, “What a mensch!”
As I sit down behind him, I realize I’ve just been publicly complimented by Jerry Stiller.
What a mensch, indeed.
Jerry, you epitomized the idea of being a “light unto the nations.”
May your memory forever be a blessing.